Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Love

The best part of being in love with someone is being convinced that that person will be with us forever. Most of us start relationship believing in the promise of love without end. Unfortunately, not all relationships end the way we want them to.

To some, love comes in a fleeting moment and goes just as fast. But getting over the feeling always seems to take a lifetime, because the only person who can heal the pain is usually the very same person who hurt us and made us cry.

Sometimes just as we are about to accept the failure of our relationship, that person comes back to us and unknowingly destroys our defenses. Suddenly, we find ourselves hooked on love again. And it hurts even more because we know that person doesn’t share the same feeling anymore.

Even if there is the urge to forget because it hurts, there would always be that compelling reason to hope for love to come back. It is like waiting for the sun to shine in the middle of a storm.

The love that brings us pain should be the same love that would heal our hearts. When you love so much that it begins to hurt, then you have to learn to let go to lessen your pain.

Love hurts, and sometimes it hurts like there is no tomorrow. But there still is and there will always be one. No matter how battered and stricken we have been, there will always be a tomorrow that will bring hope and love. But that tomorrow will never come unless we leave the past behind and live today as we should.

Let the pain remain for a while and let the tears fall as they please. Then after all that, move on and find your place in this world where you will feel that everything is going to be all right.”

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Top 10 break up lines

Sometimes it's hard for us to start a conversation with our partner, especially if it is about a break up. However, many choose to use the same lines as all the others. So, we've gathered all our favorite break up lines and made a top 10 list.

1. " We aren’t meant for each other "

2. " We aren’t right for each other "

3. " I can see barriers to any future movement for us. "

4. " We don’t do our emotional business in the same way. "

5. " You’re a great guy, but…"

6. " It’s just not working out."

7. " I love you, but I’m not in love with you. "

8. " We want different things."

9. " I still love you. "

10. " Maybe this is not the right time for us."

Feel free to add :-)

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Broken Heart Quotes That Can Cure A Broken Heart

There is nothing worse than a broken heart it makes you feel like your whole world has been turned upside down and inside out. You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you just can’t function. All you  can do is think about the love and relationship that you have lost. Many people say that a broken heart cannot be healed, even with time but the truth is that if you forget and move on then your heart will  too.


The way that you are feeling now, though, forgetting will be the furthest thing from your mind. But until you forget the pain and suffering will remain.
Here are some favourite broken heart quotes of mine and explanations based on how they can mend your broken heart.

"Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."
Yes you will feel pain when a relationship has ended but you do not have to  suffer. There are many ways in which you can forgive and forget and ultimately mend your broken heart.

"If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride."
Don’t beg or harass your ex as this will make the situation even worse. It will also make you look needy and without self respect or pride. Instead remove yourself, if possible from any situations with your ex
until you have had a chance to cool off.


"Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn’t even
feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn’t mean you are weak! It only means that you are strong enough to let go!"

During this cooling off period you should try and sort out your feelings and get rid of your anger. You need to accept that the relationship is over and start making changes to your life.

"You have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again."
If you just keep going over the past and are unable to think of the future then you will never be able to move on. You need to forgive any differences that you had between you and start to forget. Yes, this
will be difficult if you have shared many happy memories. But if you  have split up there are also going to be not so good memories that led to you splitting up. Instead of wishing for the past focus on these
reasons and take them as advice to make yourself a better person and  turn your life around.


"Wherever you are, be there totally. If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options: remove yourself from the situation, change it, or
accept it totally."


Your relationship has ended, your heart  is broken so you have two options. One is to remain in this pain
forever and the other is to accept what has happened and move on. If  you stay in your current situation you will remain unhappy. Only you can control your future and you need to start making choices that will
eventually bring you to your new life. 


 "I am somebody. I am me. I like being me. And I don’t need anybody to make me somebody."
You are a person and you are worth everything. Do not put yourself down or  think that you are worthless because there is one person who does not love you anymore. Think of the other people that do love you (friends, family etc) and focus on continuing to make these people happy. If a  relationship has broken up and you are broken hearted then maybe it has been for the best, maybe the relationship itself was making you
unhappy. Now you have been given a chance to find and love yourself.  You don’t need anyone else. You are you and you WILL be happy again!

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